Let your gentleness be evident to all.
The Lord is near.
Philippians 4:5
He was affectionately called “The Gentle
Giant.” My grandfather stood 6’4”, much taller than the average man born
in the early part of the 20th century. A stranger could have
been intimidated by his size. Yet, after spending a short amount of time
in his presence, his gentleness would become evident. He spoke with a
soft tone, rarely raising his voice. Yes, he had high expectations and
firm principles, but he was patient and kind-hearted.
Paul’s closing comments to the Church in
Philippi included the exhortation to be gentle. He intended for
Christians to avoid harsh, stern, or violent language or behavior when
interacting with others. This does not imply a simple absence of
mean-spirited or hurtful actions. Nor, does it mean we should tolerate a
standard of behavior that is inconsistent, ambiguous, or questionable.
Instead, Paul asks that our gentleness be evident to all. We should
be consistent, clear and obvious with our gentleness toward others.
According to Paul, the reason we should pay
attention to how we treat others is because the Lord is near. I will
choose to be gentle because the Lord isn’t far away. My actions are being
observed and evaluated by all who are watching, including the Lord.
Prayer
Dear Heavenly Father, please help me stand tall
in my relationships. I want to be gentle. Help me overcome my
tendency to be harsh or overbearing. Help me to be gentle with my words
and, especially, with my tone of voice. Thank you for your patience and
loving kindness toward me. In the saving grace of Jesus, amen.
Carl Smith
Stephenville, Texas
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