Friday, October 19, 2012

Empowering Words

Many years ago, I read an article about a practice session of the Green Bay Packers that illustrates what a big difference we can make by what we say and how we act towards others! On that particular day, things were not going well for Vince Lombardi’s team. Finally, Lombardi’s frustrations peaked. He singled out one of his young guards for his failure to “put out”! It was a hot muggy day when Lombardi called his big guard aside and leveled his awesome vocal guns on him! “Son, YOU are a lousy football player! YOU are not blocking! YOU are not tackling! YOU are NOT putting out! As a matter of fact, it’s over for YOU today, go take a shower!” The big guard dropped his head, turned and slowly walked into the dressing room. About forty-five minutes later, when Lombardi walked in, he saw the big guard sitting in front of his locker still wearing his uniform. His head was bowed and he was sobbing quietly!

Vince Lombardi, ever the changeable but always the compassionate warrior, did something of an about face that was also typical of him. He walked over to his football player and put his arms around his shoulder. “Son,” he said, “I told you the truth. You are a lousy football player. You’re not blocking, you’re not tackling and you’re not putting out. However, in all fairness to you, I should have finished the story. Inside of you, son, there is a great football player and I’m going to stick by your side until the great football player inside of you has a chance to come out and assert himself!” With the encouragement of these words, the young guard began to feel better. He would go on to practice another day. Knowing that he had a coach who was going to stick by his side, the young guard did begin to assert himself as a great football player. As a matter of fact, Jerry Kramer would become one of the all time great guards to ever play professional football! Vince Lombardi could have very possibly destroyed Jerry Kramer. But, instead, he changed course and pointed out the potential that was there and began to reinforce that! We can look back at the record books and see the results!

God has given each one of us a tool of great power! The tongue! We have the power to build up one another or to tear down and destroy one another. I wonder what would happen if the people in God’s kingdom would practice Lombardi’s tactics more often? Often, we say and do things, sometimes even jokingly, that destroys others or leaves scars that last for years. We seldom put forth any effort to encourage or build up one another. So many times, we contaminate our environment with negative words and actions that our spiritual growth stagnates or stops completely. If you are not a Vince Lombardi fan, then listen to the words of James and Paul!
“If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person’s religion is worthless.” James 1:26 ESV
“But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another.” Galatians 5:15 ESV
“Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion,……” Ephesians 4:29 ESV
“Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.” 1Thessaloniaans 5:11 ESV

Heavenly Father, bless us with a wholesome tongue and a wholesome heart as we strive to disciple the wholesomeness of your son. Help us to look for and reinforce the potential in others. In His name, Amen.

Ron Smith
Beeville, Texas

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

You Didn't Just Say That!

I remember the conversation like it was yesterday. 

His name was Jesse.  He had been a Christian for about two years.  He said, “I have learned so much about the bible over the last two years.  I have discovered some things Jesus said to do and not do come easier for me than other things.  I enjoy talking about the gospel.  I like serving people as an honor to God and because of God’s grace toward me.  I have picked up certain aspects of holiness quickly.  But, there are other aspects that are really hard for me.  I have a really hard time staying cool, patient and respectful when people are rude and disrespectful to me.  In my former life, to put it mildly, I exploded first and worried about the consequences later!  I never allowed anyone to walk away without expressing - sometimes rather colorfully - what I thought of their behavior and their person in particular.   Turning this part of my heart and life over to God has been a real challenge for me.  But, thanks be to God, I am making progress!”

Can you identify with Jesse? 

Rudeness is everywhere.  Heard any of these lately?  “I need it now…please!”  “What do you people do all day around here?”  “Is there anyone here who is competent?”  “I didn’t order it with mayonnaise.”  “I’ve been waiting for someone to help me.”  “You are so stupid.”  “Just get it and get out.”  

Then there are those little detours in conversation when someone rolls by your life with a verbal semi-automatic and sprays your heart with a few sentences that let you know “I envy you…I don’t like you…I enjoy taking shots at you whenever I can…I resent what happened a while back and I’m going to make you pay for it with rude remarks laced with pseudo concern for “whatever”.  Had one of those lately?  And, as a sad sidebar, these experiences happen between Christians on far more occasions than we care to admit.   

Jesse is right.  Living out the gospel in such moments is hard as nails.    

Paul reminds us that living in the Spirit puts us in the tension between rude moments and the exhortation to “be angry and sin not.”  He continues, “…and give no opportunity to the devil.” (Ephesians 4:26).  When we are treated as less than human these words from Paul are more than a snappy memory verse.  They constitute a battleground!

It is in the tension of such moments that we have the opportunity to demonstrate what it means to be a person of faith.  It is more than a list of beliefs we can rattle off with a moment’s notice.  It is showing people that the Lordship of Christ is a rule we live by in everyday experience.  In such moments we refuse to give vent to raw power and, defer instead to the Lordship of Christ.  We do this because we do not want to “grieve the Holy Spirit of God by whom we have been sealed for the day of redemp-tion” (Ephesians 4:30).  In such moments we demonstrate we are children of God by walking in love (Ephesians 5:2) thereby imitating His Son who “while being reviled did not revile in return…while suffering, uttered no threats” (1 Peter 2:22-23)

In a world in which rudeness is becoming common parlance, we speak a different language.  And, it is a language that rise above the acrimony in our streets and shows people in living color what restored humanity looks like in Jesus’ name.

O Father, grant us the strength of heart and mind to be focused in moments that cut us to the quick and lay our hearts open in unseemly ways.  Help us to know the power of composure, peace and kindness in moments when we are mistreated by other people.  May the words of our mouth and the meditation of our hearts be acceptable to you, our Rock and our Redeemer.  Amen.

Randy Daugherty
Stephenville, Texas

Monday, October 15, 2012

Salty Salt

 And to the angel of the church in Laodicea write: ‘The words of the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the beginning of God's creation.
 “‘I know your works: you are neither cold nor hot. Would that you were either cold or hot!  So, because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth.  For you say, I am rich, I have prospered, and I need nothing, not realizing that you are wretched, pitiable, poor, blind, and naked.  I counsel you to buy from me gold refined by fire, so that you may be rich, and white garments so that you may clothe yourself and the shame of your nakedness may not be seen, and salve to anoint your eyes, so that you may see.  Those whom I love, I reprove and discipline, so be zealous and repent. Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me.  The one who conquers, I will grant him to sit with me on my throne, as I also conquered and sat down with my Father on his throne.  – (Revelation 3:14-21)

13 This is the third time I am coming to you….Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Or do you not realize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless indeed you fail to meet the test! – (2 Corinthians 13:1, 5)

I never enjoy reading those two texts.  They are uncomfortable to say the least.  They challenge my assumptions about faith, ministry and church health.  As easy as it is to leave them safely under the historical glass, they challenge us in “the present” to test our “spiritual temperature” – to test ourselves to see if we are truly people of faith.  Each time I read them I have to remind myself that any offense I may feel is only my pride trying to filter out the work of the Holy Spirit who wants to clean out my thinking and sharpen my faith.

I recently read again Francis Chan’s wonderful book Crazy Love.  Chapter four is entitled “The Profile of the Lukewarm.”  It is worth the price of the book.  Here are a few snippets from that chapter.  

Lukewarm people attend church fairly regularly. It is what is expected of them, what they believe “good Christians” do, so they go.

Lukewarm people give money to charity and to the church…as long as it doesn’t impinge on their standard of living.  If they have a little left extra and it is easy and safe to give, they do so.  After all, God loves a cheerful giver, right?

Lukewarm people tend to choose what is popular over what is right when they are in conflict.  They desire to fit in both a church and outside of church; they care more about what people think of their actions (like church attendance and giving) than what God thinks of their hearts and lives.

Lukewarm people don’t really want to be saved from their sin; they want only to be saved from the penalty of their sin.  They don’t genuinely hate sin and aren’t truly sorry for it;  they’re merely sorry because God is going to punish them.  Lukewarm people don’t really believe that this new life Jesus offers is better than the old sinful one.

Lukewarm people are moved by stories about people who do radical things for Christ, yet they do not act.  They assume such action is for “extreme” Christians, not average ones.  Lukewarm people call “radical” what Jesus expected of all His followers.

Lukewarm people rarely share their faith with their neighbors, coworkers, or friends.  They do not want to be rejected, nor do they want to make people uncomfortable by talking about private issues like religion.

Lukewarm people gauge their morality of “goodness” by comparing themselves to the secular world.  They feel satisfied that while they aren’t as hard-core for Jesus as so-and-so, they are nowhere as horrible as the guy down the street.

Lukewarm people say they love Jesus, and He is, indeed, a part of their lives.  But only a part.  They give Him a section of their time, their money, and their thoughts, but He isn’t allowed to control their lives.

Lukewarm people love others but do not seek to love others as much as they love themselves.  Their love of others is typically focused on those who love them in return, like family, friends, and other people they know and connect with.  There is little love left over for those who cannot love them back, much less for those who intentionally slight them, whose kids are better athletes than theirs, or with whom conversations are awkward or uncomfortable.  Their love is highly conditional and very selective, and generally comes with strings attached.

Lukewarm people will serve God and others, but there are limits to how far they will go or how much time, money, and energy they are willing to give.

Lukewarm people think about life on earth much more often than eternity in heaven.  Daily life is mostly focused on today’s to-do list, this week’s schedule, and next month’s vacation.  Rarely, if ever, do they intently consider the life to come.  Regarding this, C. S. Lewis writes, “If you read history you will find that Christians who did most for the present world were precisely those who thought most of the next.  It is since Christians have largely ceased to think of the other world that they have become so ineffective in this.”

Lukewarm people are thankful for their luxuries and comforts, and rarely consider trying to give as much as possible to the poor.  They are quick to point out, “Jesus never said money is the root of all evil, only that the love of money is.”  Untold numbers of lukewarm people feel “called” to minister to the rich; very few feel “called” to minister to the poor.

Lukewarm people do whatever is necessary to keep themselves from feeling too guilty.  They want to do the bare minimum, to be “good enough” without it requiring too much of them.

Lukewarm people are continually concerned with playing it safe; they are slaves to the god of control.  This focus on safe living keeps them from sacrificing and risking for God.

Lukewarm people do not live by faith; their lives are structured so they never have to.  They don’t genuinely seek out what life God would have them live – they have life figured and mapped out.  The truth is, their lives wouldn’t look much different if they suddenly stopped believing in God.

Lukewarm people probably drink and swear less than average, but beside that, they really aren’t very different from your typical unbeliever.  They equate their partially sanitized lives with holiness, but they couldn’t be more wrong.

Easy reading?  Hardly.  But it reconnects us with a major point Jesus makes at the end of a discipleship discourse in Luke 14:25ff.  Jesus said, “Salt is good, but if it loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is fit neither for the soil nor for the manure pile; it is thrown out” (Luke 14:34-35).

His words and the words from Revelation 3 and 2 Corinthians 13 remind us – if we can hear them – that their service in our lives is not that of a whipping post.  They come into our minds to awaken us to our calling to be “salty salt.”  

O Lord, help us to see these words as trusted friends.  We need their awakening and encouragement to be in the world as you want us to be and need us to be.  May their salting of our lives preserve our connection with your calling and keep us salty every day.  Amen.

Randy Daugherty
Stephenville, Texas