You’re
Not Strong Enough
Have
you ever been confronted with something so difficult that you did not know how
you could go on? It is in those times that often you will hear trite Christian
platitudes designed to make people feel better with bumper-sticker theology. But these quotes do little in the face of the
actual brokenness of the world.
I
have a friend who is currently going through one life-threatening struggle
after another. He has leaned on God all the way and God has strengthened him to
face each new day. The emotion of despair has not overtaken him. One day a
well-meaning Christian said to him, “God won’t give you more than you can
handle.” I am sure you have heard those words before.
A
limp, anemic statement such as that will not stand up in a broken world.
The
primary problem with the quote is that it is not in the Bible.
There
is, however, a statement that sounds like it. In 1 Corinthians 10:13 we
read, “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to humankind.
And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can
bear.” Notice that the verse is about temptation. That’s it.
The
Bible reveals quite another story when it comes to struggles.
The
apostle Paul faced many struggles in his life. He wrote, “For we do not want
you to be ignorant, brothers and sisters, of the affliction we experienced in
Asia. We were so utterly burdened beyond our strength that we despaired of
life itself. Indeed, we felt that we had
received the sentence of death. But that was to make us rely not on
ourselves, but on God who raises the dead" (2 Cor. 1:8-9).
Take
note of these scriptures as well.
“But the Lord stood by me and strengthened me.”
(2 Timothy 4:17).
“I
can do all things thru Him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13).
“Fear
not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen
you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand” (Isaiah
41:10).
When
you find yourself struggling and you have nothing left to give – when life’s
difficulties are beyond your capability to cope, it is in those times you must
rely on God. Approach Him with an
authentic faith that engages Him with the full brunt of your emotion and pain. Then, the strength of the God of resurrection
will be seen.
Dear
Heavenly Father, life is often difficult. We sometimes feel overwhelmed
and don’t understand why you choose to
leave us in the midst of the struggle. I hurt for my friend and his struggles,
but I thank you for giving him strength. He is courageous because you stand by
him! Thank you for our friendship and for showing me an unwavering strength in
the face of weakness. I ask that you continue to hold him up. In the name of
Jesus, Amen.
Terry
Smith
Stephenville, TX
Stephenville, TX