"Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called sons of God." - Jesus
"Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment that it may give grace in time of need." - Paul
It is difficult to get through a day without encountering "differences of opinion" on a variety of cultural subjects. Healthy debate is preliminary to listening and, usually empowers respectful consideration of a point of view. Whether it be the news, tabloids, blogs or twitter, the ground of healthy debate is collapsing beneath our feet. The passionate, persuasive and respectful exchange of ideas is giving way to a kind of conversation that has more to do with winning an argument than staying connected with people and ideas at the same time. I think the following article by Joey Cope helps us see something of what our responsibility and opportunity as Christians really is in the daily experience of sharing our ideas and convictions with each other and the world in general.
Article:
For some time, I have been troubled over the way that we, as
a society and as individuals, approach conflict. Civil discourse has given way,
in large part, to guerrilla-like tactics and all-out war in the very halls
that once were a symbol of maturity and civility. The following post flows from
my troubled spirit. As such, much of this is therapeutic for me. I just feel like
I need to be transparent and to add what is hopefully a respectful voice to the
conversation.
I’ve been on the verge of shutting down all of my social
media accounts for about a year.
Why?
Because there is a certain burden associated with standing
by and watching a few of your friends – a few of your vocal friends –
become those obnoxious, narrow-minded individuals who prove little with their
rhetoric, who often react strongly on the basis of misinformation,and who,
quite frankly, eclipse the value of their “stand” on a particular issue with
their words of bias and hatred. That saddens me.
For example, I am troubled over a young man who I once
believed showed great promise in the field of peacemaking. But his online posts
revealed bias, bigotry, and almost total disregard for anyone who thinks
differently. I am certainly tough enough to hear his opinion and rancor, but it
is just painful and embarrassing. And I often wonder what damage he is doing to
others and for the peaceful cause of Christ.
I have other friends or acquaintances, both personal and
online, who have taken far different positions from me on political matters,
theological matters, health and lifestyle matters. They have stated their
opinions and made their arguments. Respectfully.
The quietness of their voices belies the volume of their
message. By speaking appropriately, at the right time, and with a humility that
comes from valuing others, their words were heard.
On a number of the issues these friends address, I don’t
find myself persuaded. Yet, I do experience a deeper understanding of both them
and of myself. And I’ve found that when I respond in kind, our conversations
and our relationships grow stronger. In many cases, we find true resolution to
the challenges that threaten to separate us.
People are finding a lot of issues to fight over in the
political realm. The economy, gun control, immigration. In recent days, with
the United States Supreme Court considering cases involving same-sex
relationships, the bile vomited from both sides of the issue is revolting at
its occurrence and the stench it has left behind is stifling.
WARNING: The following is a statement of my beliefs.
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I believe in God and in Jesus Christ.
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I believe that God has made it clear that
homosexuality is a sin.
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However, I also believe that God has made it
clear that
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Adultery and fornication are sins.
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Murder and covetousness are sins.
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Lust, lying, and idolatry are sins.
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Personal promotion over the needs of others and
anger are sins.
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A good portion of my personal motivation is
worldly and, thus, sinful.
And I believe that God makes no distinction between sins. He
despises them all because he sees what sin does to us, his beloved. God loves
us even though we are sinners.
I see no need to enter into public debate of my beliefs
because of the inherent problem with the public debate of sin.
The problem with the public debate of sin is that sin is not
debatable or negotiable. It is what it is. We don’t have the option of deciding
what is sinful and what is not.
Therefore, I also believe that God has made it clear that
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I am to love all people, regardless of their
beliefs.
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I am to respect every one.
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I am to converse and work with others in an
effort to build relationship and, where needed and available, reconciliation –
regardless of their belief.
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I am never to do anything that drives others
further from God because of my weakness in conveying God’s spirit and being.
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I am never to do anything that soils the image
of God with others by acting like . . . well, like me. I am called to walk in
God’s steps and take on his demeanor and spirit of love.
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I am to challenge my own beliefs, ferret out
errors in my thinking and behavior, and seek a brighter understanding. While
God is all-knowing and wise, I am only a work-in-progress.
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I can have hope in a God who loves, who listens,
and who provides grace for my failings.
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God will make the judgments about people. That
is not my job.
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I can, with a desire to obey God, become a
person who others see God through — even when I set clear standards and
expectations and disagree with them.
And, I also believe that my failure to seek the things on
this last list are just as sinful as the things on my first list.
Right now, we are confusing the concept of sin with the
concept of public opinion. We seem to believe that the Supreme Court’s
decisions on this issue or that issue will be a blow to the kingdom of heaven.
How shortsighted can we be?
You can’t legislate or litigate morality. You can’t make
people accept God’s invitation to holiness and a joyful life. You can’t
publicly debate sin and expect to see large scale conversion as a result. In
fact, you most likely will see the opposite.
Here’s what we can do:
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Live in accordance with our understanding of
God’s hopes and desires for us.
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Encourage others to come to know God.
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Encourage each other in holy living.
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When we disagree, never let our personal motives
or feelings derail the hope for reconciliation and future relationship with
others.
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Exercise our voices appropriately. Talk with
humility. Speak truth. Explore questions with integrity. Vote. Stay engaged and
remain helpful when the vote goes against us.
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Love every single person – family, friends,
strangers, and especially our enemies.
God asks us for very little because God has everything
covered. Let’s quit debating and begin meaningful conversation. We can accomplish
far more by pursuing peace than we can by waging war.
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